WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEVER LASTED

Hey, lemme just start with this. I hope you all know that things ain't going back to normal after this pandemic, right?

If you do, good for you. If you don't, you better start getting used to online classes and other things this pandemic has brought. You probably won't have fun things to do outside and you'd be inside most times probably watching TV or pressing your phone. Now, that's where my blog comes in. Truly, I didn't expect this much turn up for the blog and I truly appreciate you reading my post. You and I both know I have that content, so stay tuned. I will be posting randomly as soon as thoughts pop up and I won't want you to miss it. Kindly refer me to your friends, don't be stingy with the good stuff.

So, let's jump right in. Have you ever wondered how that relationship of yours ended in tears? Has your sweet relationship turned sour and you had no clue why? Well, I might have some tips. As you know, we single guys give the best advice. This post is for everyone whether you're single or you're not. Whether your morals asked you not to date until you're ready to marry or you're just the type that wants to have friends, grab a seat and read

Well as I said, single guys have the best relationship advice and we being single doesn't affect our judgement. You're probably asking why we are still single if we are so good at giving advice. It's because Coaches don't play. We'd just rather guide until we're ready for mainstream. You see, what you don't know is that we see a lot of things in your relationship that you don't. So, from my years of expertise in spectacting, I've decided to share with you some of the following tips why that connection ended 

1. You're boring: This is one of the reasons why that guy you have an eye out for probably left you. You're boring. You successfully turned a chat to an interview, you hardly understand jokes and you tend to get annoyed at the slightest thing. 

Just take a look at that. When I ask about your day, I just don't want fine 🙂, I want something more elaborate. Don't bore me.

2. You push too hard: This is what a lot of people do too much. Have you ever been in a scenerio where you're tired and you really want to end the conversation but the person you're talking to keeps talking over and over even after giving him hints that you are done. Boys and girls do this a lot. You can clearly see that this is the end of the road for today you just keep bringing up unnecessary conversations. It's not necessary at all, just go with the flow, when it's time to talk, you will talk 

3. Not being there: One thing you should know about relationship is that it takes sacrifices to actually put up with them. If you wanna get in her thought, try your best to be there for her. Girls probably go for guys that they can easily relate to ( same thing goes for guys ). If you can't sacrifice your time to put up with this, why are you bothering in the first place. Although, being there doesn't guarantee a key to the heart but it's part of it. But if you're like me, you probably don't need this 😏

4. Inadequate Gifts: I know most of you are ready to argue this one. You will probably say relationships doesn't have to be materialistic. I do agree with you, but one thing you should get is if you're not financially stable especially if you're the male ( nothing to turn into feminism here ) don't walk into it. This is for the ones already in the relationship, try your best to shower your partners with gift no matter how little it can be. Make your partner feel special time to time, put a smile on their faces and put a smile on mine by patronizing me

Just Imagine, won't you be happy if you were receiving this. Not only girls deserve this, boys do too

You can also make a couple drawing with a cute adorable picture of the two of you 😍. Just chat me up and you will be mesmerized ( 08169951641 ) 

So, where was I 🤔

Yes, gifts. Give gifts in relationships. If you're still processing the relationship, be careful so that she won't have to see them as giveaway 

5. Learn: Learn from past relationships and interactions. Observe ( most artists can relate to that )

Learn from my post, learn from movies. Learn from everything. You're witnessing it for a reason. If you've been dumped twice, sit down, look at your flaws and act on them. Change for good, your zodiac sign doesn't have anything to do with your bad character, work on them. I'm not telling you to change for someone, you're great being you. Just adjust and be good.

In conclusion, I will advise guys to...

But, relationships are great. They help you grow. This is not just me typing what's coming to my head 😑 but a well arranged composition I took time to come up with and I believe if you're having issues related to this,you can re-read or chat me up.

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                               Peace