THE SAD TRUTH 🙂

Ladies and Gentlemen, I first want to start with an apology for being away for so long. I don't have an exact reason for not writing a blog post, I just don't know why. I've been battling with a lot of thoughts and I decided to drop this with you to know if I'm the crazy one.

Few days ago, I saw a post asking which age I started working. I drop my comment and decided to read some comments, to my surprise,most comments were from guys and they were very young. It made me think why wasn't much girls there. At the same time, a lot of people will argue that there is nothing like one gender is working more than the other but that's a lie 🙂.

My ability to draw is the best thing that has ever happened to me. It's my job and I'm damn good at it. I started receiving commissions years back.

Now, today's write up is about my thoughts when I thought I didn't know how to draw again. You see, if I don't know how to draw, it's over for me. No more commissions, no more independence and certainly no more sauce. Me being able to draw is not only a gift but an achievement. I will probably go for another hustle but it won't be as fun as this.

Why am I always talking about my art, it's because it's my achievement. And why am I so obsessed with my achievement? It's because most people don't give a fuck about me. I'm also sure most people don't give a fuck about guys including fellow guys like them 🙂. Zlatan only gives a fuck about Naira Marley because he is successful like him. The only reason why you're friends with that guy is because on your scale of successful, he qualifies and there are certain perks you gain from being friends with him. That's just the sad truth. Friends aren't just friends.

I can feel that you're about to stop reading but I want you to finish reading it and think about it 

The only reason a guy can be cared about is because he is useful. Yes, I typed it and I can say it anywhere. Someone once said that a provider isn't loved for who he is but for what he can do. That thing they call true love is rare 🙂. 

It's true that people can have deep feelings for one another for some reasons but guys don't have natural value. There are only two people that have that.

1. Women

2. Children ( from age 1 to 15 )

There is a reason why guys don't find things easy when they are growing. There is a reason why a lot of guys want money quick ( I'm not in support of Fraud or Stealing in anyway). Why do young guys engage in Yahoo, it's because they don't have natural value. It's because they were loved as a kid but things changed when they grew up. Once, they were that cute looking boy that God blessed a couple with. 

But as soon as they grow up they're no longer loved for being cute or existing. As of age 18 and above, whether they will be loved or not depends on what they are bringing to the table.

I see ladies complaining about being a sex object. Try being a success object ( I don't know if that's a word but it's something sha ). 

People care about ladies existence. A lady is loved for who she is.  They are not defined by what they can do, they are loved based on the person they are. Not everyone might be satisfied but they will still see people that love them for the person they are. Not for guys 🙂.

Ladies preserve their value, guys create theirs ( someone once said that )

Our society favors women more than men. Remove sex for grade, rape and every other demeaning thing that men can do without and Women will enjoy life more. The average woman is more valuable than an average man.

This is reason why I'm not into most of those Feminism stuffs. Because most modern feminist don't fight for the right cause. Yeah, I said it.

Modern feminist focus on successful guys. Just because they want to upgrade and they want to be in the same level with the successful guys, they're blind and can't see the guys below them. They are only Feminist because they want to put themselves on the same level of the successful man not the the whole male gender. That's the truth, think about it. 

Being successful isn't a choice for an average man, it's a matter of life and death. If a lady fails in life and doesn't have her dream job or any education, she will still have value but it might not be much. She might get married to a local trader and become a mother of 4 rather than become a CEO of a company and get married to a fellow CEO and live happily ever after 🤡

But if it happens to a man, he will not be appreciated. Who sticks to a failure? Even if he is more handsome than the most handsome man on Earth, Hrithik Roshan ( I totally don't agree with him being the most handsome, they haven't seen me 😏 ). Just imagine if Chris Evans was just one poor non successful guy like that, no value.

So, if you're wondering why guys try their best to outdo women in the society or  why a man isn't happy with his wife who's more successful than him, it's this. 

If you don't understand that, let me give you an example. When I got admission into OAU, I met a lot of ladies. I met this particular lady in my 100 level days, very fine girl but we didn't talk much. We just had each other's number. Fast forward to 200 level when I started working, making portraits, painting rooms and stuff, we just somehow became close. 

It was not because of the little money i was getting from those work. From my observations, girls like guys that are passionate about something. Not just money and being handsome ( although that counts for something ) but dedication to something no matter how small it is. In my opinions, girls kinda like that hustling spirit and not just a Mama's boy that is rich but can't associate himself with something. So, hustling, handsomeness and money brings the value. The three. If you don't have that hustle, you will be leaving a lot of doors closed when it comes to women.

In short, you have to keep pushing to be loved as a young man. Ladies, just be you, live your life. Guys, hustle, do forex, don't let Hushpuppi's Instagram page push you to a life of crime

That's all I was thinking about man. That's just me, I'm extra. Think about it and drop your opinions or questions in the comment section.

Don't worry about the portrait, I took a day off and rested. Turned on good music, took my drawing board made magic. So, your boy still knows how to draw 😂. I'm still collecting commissions and they're lovable. Just call me (08169951641) 😎

Peace